Friday, October 20, 2006

Love Guru

LOVE – A word which everyone loves speaking or reading about. A word which everyone has experienced. Thought, the definition may change from person to person, but the essence will remain the same.

You might wonder… what makes Denzil deviate from his usual Taang Khichayee and write about Love and that too in the most unusual place like Animal Kingdom. Well… lots of reasons actually…

- I couldn’t think of any other topic…
- A romantic song playing on my PC… (Tum Mile…)
- Season of love (Its kind of contagious... Loveria)

I can go on and on… But now, that I have given a decent justification… I don’t think I need to convince you further… ;-)

So, back to the topic… What is Love??? (Socho Socho)

Here are some definitions I thought are very beautiful and touching...

“Love is when you commit a mistake but your Mom just gives you a tight hug when you say Sorry.”
- Janice (6 years)

“Love is when even after celebrating 50 years of marriage, grandmother still blushes when grandfather tells her that she looks so beautiful…”
- George (Son)

“Love is when my dad brings flowers for my mom just to see a smile on her face…”
- Rose (18 years)

No book can describe the experince of real love... It can only be felt by the 2 beating hearts...

So go on my friends… Proclaim your love… Go and tell that special person in your life how much you love him/her…. It doesn't matter what their reply is. A sweet poem which says it all...

I want to tell her,
I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Read it here. Courtesy: Tarun

Love is all about making the other person feel good... Go out and spread love… every person needs it… Its time to show the other person what Love is all about… You don’t have to take much efforts… A small compliment and a smile is all the armor you need…


HAPPY DIWALI all my dear friends.... Wishing U a Sparkling and Crackling Festival of Lights... Forget your diet and binge on sweets...

17 comments:

dexter said...

naughty joke regarding love:

A little girl was watching her parents dress for a party. When she saw
her dad donning his tuxedo, she warned, "Daddy, you shouldn't wear
that suit." "And why not, darling?" "You know that it always gives you
a headache the next morning."

Love is so innocent:
Steven (age 3)
hugged and kissed his Mom goodnight.
"I love you so much, that when you die I'm going to bury you outside my
bedroom window."

wondering about getting a wife at an early age:
Clinton (age 5)
was in his bedroom lookin g worried.
When his Mom asked what was troubling him, he replied, "I don't know what'll
happen with this
bed when I get married. How will my wife fit in?"

this is the best of all:
The Sermon this Mom will never forget. On this particular Sunday
sermon was
"Dear Lord," the minister began, with arms extended toward heaven
and a rapturous look on his upturned face.
"Without you, we are but dust."
He would have continued but at that moment a very obedient daughter (who
was listening!) Leaned over to the Mom and asked quite audibly in her shrill
little girl voice,

"Mom, what is butt dust?"


Sorry to deviate from the topic... but i feel love is nothing but enjoying the pain at a same its ignorance and its unkown feeling of loneliness in a crowded virar train.. laughing at ourself when alone.. feel the presence of partner even when there is no relation or no contact for years...

Anonymous said...

lets sing a song:


pyaar hame kiss mode pe lee ayaaaaaaaaaaa.............
ke dil kare haay.....
koi ye bataye kya hoga???????

Insidemamind said...

A month later, after the Steve Irwin's post, you have come up with something lovey dovey.. LOL! :P

It's very important to let the other person know how much you care for him/her.. Life is too short and uncertain. So make full use of TODAY!

Here's something more.. It's from Love Is.. - my fav. cartoon strip. I make it a point to collect the strips whenever I come across it. I have made eight pages so far.. The day I find the perfect mate, I might gift it to him.. :p

Love is .. when everything is "ours", not his and hers

Love is .. like a "black hole" without him / her

Anonymous said...

Denzy bhai lagta hai tere setting ho gaya...!!!! Sahi hai bhai....thank god bahut jaldi tere main pyaar jag utha..!!!

mysticarni said...

All our lives we want things. We want love. We want relationships. But what for? But as time passes we want to be more right than we want to be in love. What is it that we want? Do we want to be right or do we want to be in love? Most people beat themselves up anyway. So why beat someone who is supposed to be our lover. We are the ones supposed to hold them together in their times of weakness. We are their friend, their manager, their associate, their partner, their mentor, their father, their mother, their son, and their daughter. Whatever is the relationship. Why not cultivate it?

Where do you really really wanna be? What would your ideal relationship look like? I mean if you can have it any way you want it, what would your intimate relationship be like? What would you talk about? What would you laugh about? What would you share? How would you learn? How would you grow? What would you contribute? How would you make love? What would be the magic times that you share? How would you surprise? Most of us are so busy with our lives that we don’t take time for the things that are most important in our lives.

- Anthony Robbins

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DENZIL said...

Dexter ke bacche.... yeh tere liye hai...

Here are some more signs of falling in love....

When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang
Up...but you miss them already when it was just two minutes
ago1

You read their texts over and over again...

You walk really slowly when you're with them...

When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...

You smile when you hear their voice...

All you see is him/her...

You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...

They become ALL you think about...

You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think
About them...

You would do anything for them...

While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole
Time.....

DENZIL said...

Hey IMM,

Are you really collecting those Strips??? And you are gonna gift them to your loved one??? Wow!!! Lucky chap!!!! We guys matlab animals need to learn "How to be romantic without doing much filmigiri....????" from you...

Will you teach us plz???

DENZIL said...

@ Arnie...

First I was shocked... then floored, then stunned... I only got back to my senses when i read the name "Anthony Robbins".... Phew!!! I was just thinking how can you write such intricate details on love like a Pandit.... heheheh

Anonymous said...

umm. Denzil my man.... interesting to see your thoughts on love

mysticarni said...

@Denzil!
Well wat i am wondering about is ... y do u think i can't write intricate details about love like a pandit?
ehehehe!
As for Anthony Robbins - he gave the skin of language and expression to the feelings that we often find difficult to put in words ... for fear of shame, ridicule or some such other self-inhibiting factor! However, i am pretty independent of self-inhibiting feelings!

BTW! Nice 2 c a post on luv from u finally! Keep it up dude!

Insidemamind said...

I am really collecting those cartoon strips!! :p Do you think I am joking?! :O

The only problem is .. Where is that "lucky chap"?! :S

And.. :D I don't mind giving you (hehehe.. :p) lessons. But, all the students are supposed to fetch me a Love Is.. cartoon strip every month.

I really want to make a book out of it! :D

What say animals?! :p

DENZIL said...

Animals: Thumbs Up

Insidemamind said...

Hey Denzu.. New post up! It's about a trip.. not to a waterfall, sanctuary or something..We don't have them here! Friends and I just went to a shopping mall..That's it! :p

Ali said...

Denz i kno ur in love, but hav u shared ur feelings with the person u love..........?
i kno denz its a beautiful feeling 2 b in love.........evrythng around juz seem to very nice..........Anyways All the best for ur love...........

Tarun said...

Nice one, Denzi.. :)

Anonymous said...

Loving was never so easy till I knew how to smile after making a sacrifice for Him ...
---deepu